đ From High School Sweethearts to Buckeye Royalty: Ohio State Coach Ryan Day and Wife Nina Celebrate 19 Years of Marriage and Resilience in Heartfelt June Anniversary…
đ From High School Sweethearts to Buckeye Royalty: Ohio State Coach Ryan Day and Wife Nina Celebrate 19 Years of Marriage and Resilience in Heartfelt June Anniversary...

COLUMBUS, OHIO â In the swirling world of college footballâwhere wins and losses often dominate headlines and where coaches come and goâsome stories rise above the scoreboard. This June, Ohio State head football coach Ryan Day and his wife, Nina, are celebrating not just another milestone but a storybook love affair that has withstood pressure, adversity, and national limelight. Nineteen years after they exchanged vows, the Days are not only partners in marriage but also a resilient power couple at the heart of Buckeye Nation.
From the bleachers of their New Hampshire high school to the roaring stadium of Ohio Stadium, Ryan and Nina Day have traveled a remarkable journey togetherâone defined by loyalty, growth, and a profound commitment to family and purpose. As they toast to nearly two decades of marriage this month, those who know them best say their story is more than a romantic milestoneâit’s a beacon of strength, especially in an era where the personal lives of public figures are increasingly strained.
đ A Love Story Born in New England
Ryan and Ninaâs love story began long before he became a household name in Big Ten football. Both natives of Manchester, New Hampshire, the two met during their high school years at Manchester Central High School, where their bond quickly became evident. What began as a teenage friendship blossomed into something much more enduring.
âHe was just such a good person,â Nina once shared in a Buckeye documentary segment, reflecting on those formative years. âEven back then, Ryan had this presenceâhe made people feel calm and seen. And he always had a plan.â
That plan, as it turned out, would include Nina at every step.
They would attend the University of New Hampshire together, where Ryan starred as a quarterback under the tutelage of then-offensive coordinator Chip Kelly, while Nina pursued her own academic goals. It was a time of late-night study sessions, long bus rides, and big dreamsâwith football never far from the center of their shared world.
By June 2006, those dreams had intertwined fully. Ryan and Nina tied the knot in an intimate New England ceremony that gathered family and friendsâa moment they describe as simple, authentic, and perfect.
đ Building a Life Around Footballâand Each Other
After marriage, life accelerated quickly. Ryan dove into coaching, climbing the ranks through various college programs and a few NFL stints with the Philadelphia Eagles and San Francisco 49ers. The journey was not linearâthere were sacrifices, relocations, and the constant grind of footballâs nomadic life.
âBeing a coachâs wife isnât glamorous,â Nina once admitted in an Ohio State alumni interview. âItâs packing up in the middle of the school year, itâs missing holidays, itâs moving away from your support system. But with Ryan, there was always a greater purpose.â
That purpose came into full view when Ryan joined Ohio State University in 2017 under Urban Meyer as co-offensive coordinator and quarterbacks coach. When Meyer stepped down, Day took the helm as head coach in 2019âa seismic moment that would redefine their lives.
âIâll never forget the moment we learned he would be the next head coach,â Nina recalled. âIt was emotional. We were proud, but we also knew the responsibility. This wasnât just about football. This was about young men, about a university, about Ohio.â
â¤ď¸ Marriage Through Trials and Triumphs
Despite their success, the Daysâ story is not one of perfect pictures. Itâs a story marked by deep personal struggleâespecially Ryanâs childhood, which included the devastating loss of his father, Raymond Day, to suicide when Ryan was just nine years old.
That loss left an indelible mark on Ryanâand it also forged an unshakable bond with Nina, who supported him through his darkest moments. Over the years, Ryan has spoken candidly about the emotional scars and how Ninaâs unwavering support helped him heal.
âShe has been the rock,â Ryan said in a 2022 ESPN interview. âWhen youâve gone through trauma, you donât always have the words. But Nina always knew when to listen, when to push, when to let me process. I wouldnât be here without her.â
Together, theyâve turned that pain into purpose. In 2020, the Days launched the âOn Our Sleevesâ movement in partnership with Nationwide Childrenâs Hospital, aiming to break the stigma around mental health in children and adolescents. Their efforts have raised millions and inspired athletes, students, and coaches across the country.
đĄ Family First: Raising Children with Purpose
Behind the football sideline and media glare is the Day familyâtight-knit, private, and fiercely protective of each other. Ryan and Nina are proud parents to three children: R.J., Grace, and Ourania (named after Ninaâs Greek heritage).
While Ryan commands game plans and recruits the next stars of college football, Nina ensures stability and warmth at home, often balancing between supporting OSU events and shielding their kids from the pressures of public life.
âSheâs the heart of our family,â Ryan often says. âShe keeps us grounded.â
Friends describe the Daysâ household as surprisingly normalâfilled with family dinners, homework struggles, music, and laughter. Both parents emphasize empathy, service, and mental well-beingâvalues that reflect in their public advocacy as well.
đ A 19th Anniversary Celebration Marked by Gratitude
This June, the Days celebrated their 19th wedding anniversary with a quiet family dinner in Columbus, followed by a surprise gathering organized by close friends. There were no massive media reveals, no flashy Instagram reelsâjust joy, connection, and reflection.
âThis year, more than ever, weâre just thankful,â Nina shared on her private social media account, with a rare public post. âThankful for the memories, the growth, and the strength that comes from walking this road together.â
A handwritten note from Ryan was spotted by photographers later that night, tucked into Ninaâs anniversary bouquet. It read simply:
â19 years down. Forever to go. Youâre still the best decision I ever made.â
đ´ A Love That Mirrors the Spirit of Buckeye Nation
For many Ohio State fans, the Day family has become more than just the family behind the coachâthey represent what Buckeye Nation values most: integrity, resilience, and loyalty.
âRyan and Nina are not just ambassadors for football,â said Ohio State athletic director Gene Smith. âTheyâre ambassadors for what it means to be human, to lead with humility and heart.â
As the 2025 football season approaches, with expectations sky-high and rivalries looming, the Days know the pressure that lies ahead. But if their marriage has taught them anything, itâs how to lean into challenge with unity.
âNineteen years is a long time,â Ryan said with a chuckle during a recent press conference when a reporter brought up his anniversary. âBut with Nina, it feels like weâre still just getting started. Every day, we learn something new about each other. She makes me betterânot just as a coach, but as a man.â
đŹ Messages Pour In From the Buckeye Family
As news of their 19th anniversary spread through Buckeye circles, social media was flooded with tributes from former players, coaching staff, and even rival coaches.
Justin Fields, who played under Day, wrote:
âCoach Day taught me how to lead, but Mrs. Day showed me how to carry yourself with grace. Congrats to the GOATs!â
Urban Meyer, who passed the baton to Ryan in 2019, added:
âBehind every great coach is a stronger partner. Nina Day is every bit as important to the Buckeyes as Ryan. Happy anniversary to two amazing people.â
Other tributes came from Buckeye fan pages, youth mental health organizations, and even OSU president Ted Carter, who praised the couple for turning personal tragedy into public service.
đŽ Looking Ahead: Faith, Football, and Forever
With nearly two decades of marriage and a legacy that reaches beyond football, Ryan and Nina Day are entering their 20th year together with quiet optimism and gratitude. Plans are already underway for a more public celebration next year when they mark their 20th anniversary, possibly involving Buckeye fans and community outreach initiatives.
For now, though, they remain focused on whatâs always mattered most: family, impact, and one another.
âI know how chaotic our life can be,â Nina said in a rare interview with local station WBNS-TV. âBut in all of it, the heart remains the sameâtwo kids from Manchester, trying to build something lasting. And I think we have.â
đ¸ A Photo Worth a Thousand Cheers
On the evening of their anniversary, a candid photo surfaced that perfectly captured the spirit of their journey. In it, Ryanâwearing a simple Ohio State pulloverâwas seen walking hand-in-hand with Nina through the tunnel at Ohio Stadium, empty stands in the backdrop, the summer sun casting long shadows. No words, no fanfare.
Just a coach, a partner, and a love that has weathered everything.
From young love to national leadership, from personal tragedy to public triumph, Ryan and Nina Dayâs 19 years of marriage are a living testament to resilience, loyalty, and love in its most authentic form. As the couple prepares to lead Buckeye Nation into a new season of hope, their story remains a grounding forceâa reminder that beyond the touchdowns and trophies, the heart of Ohio State football beats in a home filled with purpose and unwavering commitment.